Is the Spark Gone or Just Hidden? Here’s How to Find It Again

You love your partner — but lately, something feels… flat. You’re not alone.

The spark doesn’t always vanish — sometimes it just gets buried under stress, routine, or unmet needs. But the good news? It’s totally possible to reignite it. Here’s how:

Switch things up – Break your routines. Try a new date night activity, explore a new bedroom dynamic, or even switch roles during chores. Novelty reawakens attraction.

Talk about your desires – Share what turns you on — emotionally, mentally, and physically. Ask your partner what excites them too. Curiosity keeps love alive.

Revisit your love story – Look through old photos. Rewatch your wedding video. Reminisce about how you met or your first kiss. That energy is still there — just waiting to be remembered.

Create anticipation – Flirty texts during the day, suggestive notes in pockets, or planning a sexy surprise builds excitement.

Do something outside your comfort zone — together – Whether it’s salsa dancing or a spicy challenge, doing something new activates the same brain chemistry as falling in love.

Sparks don’t die — they just need oxygen. Feed the flame.